!Елочка writes September 22, 2014 15:44

Had a nice run.
Chaldini's book is interesting at 6 out of 10. I recognize a lot of situations he describes.
I got to the part when he describes the influence of shame or fear to people, but he never gets to the point that these are emotions which can be eliminated. Or at least he could admit they are frustrating and making lifes miserable. He suggests the ways to avoid he situations with manipulation, which mostly look like crutches, but not like solid solutions.

September 22, 2014 15:44

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